Bettyville: A Memoir

The Amazon Spotlight Pick for March 2015: When George Hodgman left Manhattan for Paris to visit his aging mother, he didn t realize it would be the beginning of an unintended, and indeterminate tenure as a caregiver. Did I mention that it s Paris, Missouri? They say you can t go home again, and in Hodgman s case, you can understand why he wouldn t want to Paris hadn t proven to be the most hospitable place for someone coming to terms with their sexuality. This was compounded by the fact that Hodgman s parents didn t approve of who he turned out to be, which was as specific as they were willing to get on the matter. Any gaps in their understanding were filled with an insidious silence that kept this otherwise loving family at arm s length. I haven t forgotten what this book is called and, no doubt, you will fall in love with the impossible and endearing woman that is its namesake. But at its heart, Bettyville serves as a poignant cautionary tale about the dangers of leaving difficult things unsaid, and in these pages, Hodgman practices what he preaches. Erin Kodicek