My Affair Lady

Affairs can be exciting and intoxicating...until they're not...until the lies and the deceit come to light, and they always do! Women admit to having as many affairs as men. Both Men and Women 68-74% respectively say they would have an affair if they knew they wouldn't get caught! Why? Is the reason different for men versus women? What happens in relationships that make people cheat? Can relationships survive infidelity? Everyone is quick to blame the "other woman" but how much blame should you, as "the victim" bear? Can two people survive if they had the affair with each other? What does forgiveness mean and how do we go about it? What can we do, especially as women, to make sure we don't want to have an affair and what can we do to ensure he chooses not to?