The Trials of Being a Black Gay Man

The Trials of Being a Black Gay Man's title speaks for the book itself. It's a testament that all gay men of any race can attest to as well as friends and family members of an gay individual. It tells the story and life of a young black gay man who after 21 years of living as a heterosexual, starts to discover the hidden and suppressed feelings that he has towards being attracted to the same sex. He goes through life changing events, discoveries, heartache, embarrassment, and enlightenment. The Trials of being a Black Gay Man continues for the gentleman during his growth as he questions his sexuality, acceptance from friends, family, and his community. He talks about his experiences being a black gay man, the distrust and unfaithfulness of his lovers, the embarrassment of being outed, and the battle to understand his place in life and being true to himself as a black gay man. He is faced with challenges of understanding the gay lifestyle and experiences hatred amongst gays against their own kind. He continues with his search for love and happiness in a lifestyle that is shunned upon by society.