How To Marry The Right Guy

Did you ever wonder why some women find the perfect guy to marry, do so, and enjoy a love affair that lasts a lifetime? On the other hand, some women marry a guy that is wrong for them now, wrong for them tomorrow, and wrong for them for a lifetime? What's the difference? Why do some women succeed at love and marriage while others fail?

Taking the Marry the Right Guy Quiz in this book will tell you how your guy stacks up against the essential characteristics required to make a great husband. These indicators are based upon more than 30 years of research in 48 countries and on all seven of the world's continents by America's #1 Love and Marriage Experts.

We don't mean to suggest that it is always easy to tell if the one you think you love is one you can have a successful marriage with. We do, however, believe strongly that taking the Marry the Right Guy Quiz, receiving an acceptable score, and learning the essential indicators can help you know what to look for.

Here's how it works. You think you love a guy. He tells you all of the right things. But over time you begin to notice that his actions belie his words. He tells you he respects you but dismisses your opinions. He waxes on about how he puts you on a pedestal but never opens the door for you when he gets to it first. He tells you how he wants the relationship between the two of you to be a shared relationship and then makes all the decisions by himself.

When it comes to love and marriage, there is a truism that trumps all truisms: A guy's actions speak so much louder than his words. Never lose sight of this truism for to do so is put your heart, your health, and your happiness at peril.

The point is this, if you fail to notice and question the actions of the one you purport to love in the early stages of your relationship then you are deluding yourself into thinking he will change later on. Guys rarely do. And so often, women who ignore the warning signs end up getting married, only to discover later on that the guy they married is not who they thought he was.

Knowing the 33 indicators and paying careful attention to the guy you are thinking about marrying in the early stages of your relationship can save a failed marriage from happening in the first place. This is the ultimate key to a successful marriage.