The Dark Side of the Mind: Stories of Love, Courage and Transformation

How To Overcome Self-Sabotage

Subheadline - At the end of the day you won't regret the things that you did in this lifetime, what will eat you alive are the things you failed to do. You will look back and see all the crushed dreams you had and wished you had had the guts, the drive and the courage to go after, you will shed a tear and will hope you just had more time. By then it will be too late.

The silent killer

Every time you give into the temptation to not do what your heart says, every time you remain tied to the routine, every time you take one step forward and two steps back, you become resentful and you end up hating yourself. Self-sabotage makes you not go after something that was very important to you, and someone else got it. That person is less smart, less capable and less charming than you, but he has what it takes, and you hate him, but the truth is that you hate yourself for listening to the gentle whisper that tells you: Why stir things up? What's wrong with the status quo? What makes you think you can accomplish that? What makes you think that you even deserve that? You listen to that voice, you stop walking, you look down and back away. "Yes, maybe it's too good to be true, maybe I'm just too ambitious, maybe the risk is to high." Self-sabotage is the silent dream killer, the absolute responsible for your life's disappointments. It is so smooth, so discreet, so seductive that you fail to realize it's there. Where's that notebook in which you used to write your dreams? You tossed away, a long time ago thinking it was ridiculous. How many things you could ve done already, and what you have done. Nothing! Self-sabotage is your worst enemy and will stop you every time you want to achieve something important. It s lying in wait until you make up your mind and it will attack you before you even start. The world would be given to you if you were brave and determined. You have a hero inside, he will be able to do the greatest things for you, but you refuse to wake him up. You don t know all the wonderful things you would do if you let him loose. Haven t you had very generous impulses, enticing entrepreneurial ideas, amazing dreams? That s your hero, listen up! He screams in this jail that he is locked in. Listen to him, pay attention, don t shut him up as you have done so far. Let him decide. You don t realize all of the things you would be able to do if you let him lead. If you knew, you would smile shyly thinking. NO I think that s impossible. For you it may be impossible, but not for your hero that is screaming inside your chest. Stop aiming for little things, expand yourself. Let that hero lose and then you will realize how small you have been until now.

What this book is about?

This book is about understanding that side of our minds that simply doesn t want to cooperate. The moment we understand how it works, we can turn it around and make it an ally instead of an enemy. That part of our mind is frequently underestimated because, while it has our best interests in mind (no pun intended), it operates in an outdated fashion, because it still thinks we live in the Stone Age. With this book, you will understand the real workings of that powerful mind of yours, and you will be able to easily change the beliefs that have been holding you back. You will not only learn a lot, you will love the anecdotes and laugh in the meantime.

What will you accomplish?

Understanding self-sabotage will help you defeat it, understanding how your decision making process works will help you achieve your goals. Understanding that dark side of your mind will help you tame it and make you overcome the impossible. You are worth your weight in gold, but you don't believe it, your mind doesn't want you to believe it. Inside this book you will find the code to get past your mental obstacles. Prepare to thrive. The sky's the limit.