FemDom Evolution; I Became Sexually Dominant For Tongue

I've been asked by countless people how I became a sexually aggressive dominant woman. It's just human curiosity how a "normal" young woman ends up cuckolding her husband, enjoying administering bare bottom spankings, caning, ball busting, giving guys blue balls, tease and denial, orgasm control, demanding oral service through face sitting and Queening (and out of frustration designing my own Queening chairs). And beyond the physical aspects, trying to figure out the psychology of not only myself, but also the formulation of the submissive male's mind. So, here for the first time ever, I've outlined all the sexual experiences I had over the years, with so many different and very unique lovers, and my dissatisfaction with some past lovers. Shedding some light on what led to my becoming the sexually dominant woman (and housewife) I am today.