The story of my life with Connie,I was born in Siaya Kenya, a second born in the family of Alexius Tawo Okiya.Life as i saw it ,polygamy in the family and when a partner declines to be tested for HIV.Death in the family and after, the origins of the Luo in Kenya my tribe and Kenya my motherland.Corruption in the civil service and why the government should treat her citizens with dignity and humility.