If they could it do it all over again, they might not... so it's a good thing they can't, because then we wouldn t hear about Marrit Ingman s disastrous honeymoon in Maui; Sunset editor Allison Aves s eco-escapades in Costa Rica, where she meddled in the love unions of nesting turtles, catching eggs as they exited surprised terrapins; or Philadelphia Magazine s Amy Donahue's ascetic retreat to a Berkshires spa, which sent her scrambling for black-market sources of sugar and fat.