HE IS SINGLE FOR A REASON. A guide to picking the right man to find ever-lasting love

After seventeen years of marriage and a three year divorce court battle I found myself thrust into the dating world like a lamb into the lion’s den. The single lioness’s in the jungle knew the rules of the dating hunt so well that I was manipulated into dating women who were not right for me. Like a snake oil salesmen the single women morphed their true personality types to present a marketing package to fit my needs.
Over the last eight years I dated women from three different continents and learned more about the differences between men and women than any man alive. Men don’t understand women and women don’t understand men. That is a fact of life. The experiences and lessons learned about dating are detailed in this book with the hope that you will better understand the opposite sex in order to make the right choice for a life partner.
I entered the world of online dating only to discover my true purpose on this planet. The kernel of a self-help dating book idea was born from writing an honest 2,000 word match.com profile. Going from CPA to stockbroker to author was a unique learning progression which allowed me to objectively analyze the dating world in order to help you find your soul mate. The overwhelmingly positive responses to my online profile were so numerous that I wanted to share them with you in this prologue. This book is the extension of that highly successful match.com online profile.
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I have to say, your profile is greatness....I think I have gone out with more than a few guys that fit one or more of the red flag categories you mentioned. It is amazingly difficult to find someone who is actually emotionally stable and capable of having a healthy dating relationship.

How long have you been in Colorado? I am originally from Dallas, but lived in Castle Rock and the DTC area from 2002 - 2006. I really miss it....it feels more like home than TX!
Anyway, have a great Saturday :)

Karen, HiClassQT
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you are so funny !
Hi dtcrunner,

Especially that serial dater! that made me laugh so hard. I am new to so that one really caught my eye.
Please take a look at my profile and see if you are interested to talk on the phone!
Blessings !
LightnJoy
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Hi
I'm still cracking up about your non-politically correct types of online daters...man are they ever true!! Thankfully I don't fall into any of these categories and consider myself to be very grounded and well adjusted. It's a pleasure to read something from a person who can actually write well! I also liked your last paragraph...yes, I crave the touch of the right man and to be able to share my zest for life...ready for the long haul.

Plans for this weekend aren't huge, just in a dance performance tomorrow night and some time at the gym...the remainder of the weekend is yet to be.

How about you? You seem like a man who really knows how to have FUN!
~Colette, Leo Lady

Why only a wink?
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Hi dtcrunner
HI dtcrunner, Thank you for the wink. I love your sense of humor in your profile. I am very much able to identify w your points of view. I would be interested in learning more about you. Do you have Yahoo or AOL IM?

Melissa, Phillyindenver

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Greetings "dtcrunner" !!
Hello,
I am reaching out to say Thank You for allowing me to "LOL". I enjoyed reading your profile...you are very intriguing! :-):-)
I would enjoy learning more about you...Lmk your thoughts.
Many Smiles,
Rita :-), Sincereblueeyes6
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Thought I'd just say that your profile is hysterical. It was a happy, little break among the rest. Thanks for the humor!

Suzie, Suzq074444
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