Rekindle your Love Life and Reignite your Relationship: A Practical Plan for People in a Low-Sex/No-Sex Relationship or Marriage

REKINDLE YOUR LOVE LIFE

Jeff K from NJ writes, This book came to me like food to a starving man. It may have saved my marriage and my sanity! It is completely different from the other books you ll find about sex-starved relationships. Richard Thomas knows that, if one partner is completely refusing to play ball, it is impossible to deal with the problem 'as a couple'. The book is full from beginning to end with practical advice on how to 're-ignite' your love life from a man s point of view.

Bill C from Portland says, All the other advice I ve ever seen about this problem focuses on working it out together or on being a better lover. But that never worked for me, since my partner was stonewalling me. This approach is both more practical and more in depth. It s about changing the dynamics of your relationship, and getting her to think about you in a different way.

Do you feel you re in a low-sex or no-sex relationship?
Would you like to have sex with your partner more often? Would you like sex with her to be more passionate? If so, read on

You re not alone. Laura Weiner Davis in her book The Sex-Starved Marriage estimates that 1 in 20 couples has sex fewer than ten times a year. That may be an understatement. The New York Times estimated 15% of couples were in this situation, whereas Newsweek put the figure at 20%.

The primary aim of this powerful Rekindle book is to help you understand what is going on in your sexual relationship. You especially need to understand the stresses and behaviors in your relationship that have brought you to where you are. Hint: this is not all her fault, not by any means.

But that s not all. You need a practical plan. Only one person is in a position to put this right, and that is YOU. You need the 10 Point Action Plan to get things back on track. The Rekindle Action Plan is full practical information.

(NB This is a book for MEN. Although in one third of no-sex relationships, the lost interest person is a man, and many of the dynamics are the same, the practical steps in the book are designed for a man whose female partner has lost interest.)

In the Action Plan, you will see how to:

Stop the vicious cycle of rejection and frustration
Realise that it s not all about sex. In fact, sex is only a small part of it
Help her rediscover her sexual self, even though she says she s completely lost interest
Make yourself attractive and desirable to her once again, so she can t wait to make love to you
Give her back her sexual self-confidence
Increase your sexual value and change her perception of you
Learn about masculine paradigms and how to project the right image as a man
Increase her satisfaction levels during love-making
Figure out her libido type and increase satisfaction for both of you
Do this for her sake, not just for your own
Stop the negative blame game . It s not your fault, and it s not hers either.

By reading this book, you will also learn:

The one key thing about what women want from a man sexually which explains so much of their behavior.
The one big negative dynamic which is at work in relationships, and which is the root cause of most sex-less relationships.
Why advice in magazines and web sites about this problem is (although well-meaning) almost always wrong.
Why, though she d never admit it, she feels bad, even guilty, about the situation.
Why the many things you ve tried, or thought of trying, don t work.
Why communication between you as a couple is totally overrated, and
How you can get your message across in other ways.

You love your partner. You owe it to her, and to yourself, to free yourselves of this burden. You owe it to her to help her rediscover the lovely, sexual creature she was before.