Have you ever almost not done something because you were scared? Afraid someone might be there that would ruin it for you or you'd get in your head and have a horrible time? I have.
When I saw Pete Wentz of Fall Out Boy was signing books at a local bookstore, I debated whether or not to go. I have a tendency to be shy and stand out like a sore thumb nailed by a hammer. And besides my favorite TV show would be on. I'd have to miss it in order to see him. That's when I realized I needed to change.
I called upon my competitive nature. It was me vs. me and me vs. the former emo kids. I did mental and emotional two-a-day's to ready myself so I wouldn't get in my own way.