If I Hold My Head Tight Enough, It Won't Explode: dealing with a needy parent
Book Details
Author(s)Kimberly Coleman
Publishercrassus
ISBN / ASINB00TB6NXDA
ISBN-13978B00TB6NXD6
Sales Rank1,346,134
MarketplaceUnited States 🇺🇸
Description
Does your parent's behavior rule the day? is he or she like a self-indulgent adolescent or angry or sullen, attention-seeking or non-communicative? Is there a rapid cycling of moods? This is a guide to saving your sanity while helping your parent regain a personal identity and self-satisfaction by assuming responsibility for his or her own happiness and health ( both physical and mental).
Written by a Psychiatric Nurse this slim volume is a collection of ideas, designed to help you deal with the emotional anarchy of a needy parent. It won't provide you 'the' answer but it will guide you back through your past and help you review your present so you can see where your relationship with your parent is and where it should be. It is important to remind yourself: somehow, somewhere along the way, you became the surrogate ‘parent’.
The suggestions from the author's experience as a mental health nurse and her own issues with her parent will give you ideas on bettering your own relationship. You have to gain clarity in dealing with a needy parent and not just ‘go along’ with the day’s demands for the sake of a potential moment of peace. Assessing, Planning, Intervening, and Evaluating your life together is paramount for your future, for your own mental and physical health.
The suggested tools and checklists will help you analyze your situation and start exploring options in your locale. An Appendix of organizations, references, and quick meal ideas are also included.
This guide is meant to be simply a starting point for you to examine your relationship with your parent. You likely already know changes must be made.
From the author:
'Instead of offering you my war stories, I believe my book will prove more useful to share my forensics and research so you don’t encounter as many dead ends and false starts as I did…especially if you have only small-town options available. Just remember, anything can be made workable with the right attitude and right people. You just have to start, to make that phone call, and then the next one. It takes persistence, but when you succeed, you’ll find you have time to celebrate even the small stuff.'
Written by a Psychiatric Nurse this slim volume is a collection of ideas, designed to help you deal with the emotional anarchy of a needy parent. It won't provide you 'the' answer but it will guide you back through your past and help you review your present so you can see where your relationship with your parent is and where it should be. It is important to remind yourself: somehow, somewhere along the way, you became the surrogate ‘parent’.
The suggestions from the author's experience as a mental health nurse and her own issues with her parent will give you ideas on bettering your own relationship. You have to gain clarity in dealing with a needy parent and not just ‘go along’ with the day’s demands for the sake of a potential moment of peace. Assessing, Planning, Intervening, and Evaluating your life together is paramount for your future, for your own mental and physical health.
The suggested tools and checklists will help you analyze your situation and start exploring options in your locale. An Appendix of organizations, references, and quick meal ideas are also included.
This guide is meant to be simply a starting point for you to examine your relationship with your parent. You likely already know changes must be made.
From the author:
'Instead of offering you my war stories, I believe my book will prove more useful to share my forensics and research so you don’t encounter as many dead ends and false starts as I did…especially if you have only small-town options available. Just remember, anything can be made workable with the right attitude and right people. You just have to start, to make that phone call, and then the next one. It takes persistence, but when you succeed, you’ll find you have time to celebrate even the small stuff.'
