No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving The Suicide Of A Loved One

Suicide would appear to be the last taboo. Even incest is now discussed freely in popular media, but the suicide of a loved one is still an act most people are unable to talk about--or even admit to their closest family or friends. This is just one of the many painful and paralyzing truths author Carla Fine discovered when her husband, a successful young physician, took his own life in December 1989. And being unable to speak openly and honestly about the cause of her pain made it all the more difficult for her to survive.

With No Time to Say Goodbye, she brings suicide survival from the darkness into light, speaking frankly about the overwhelming feelings of confusion, guilt, shame, anger, and loneliness that are shared by all survivors. Fine draws on her own experience and on conversations with many other survivors--as well as on the knowledge of counselors and mental health professionals. She offers a strong helping hand and invaluable guidance to the vast numbers of family and friends who are left behind by the more than thirty thousand people who commit suicide each year, struggling to make sense of an act that seems to them senseless, and to pick up the pieces of their own shattered lives. And, perhaps most important, for the first time in any book, she allows survivors to see that they are not alone in their feelings of grief and despair.

• Dying to Be Free: A Healing Guide for Families After a Suicide
• The Gift of Second: Healing from the Impact of Suicide
• Grieving a Suicide: A Loved One's Search for Comfort, Answers, and Hope
• My Son . . . My Son . . .: A Guide to Healing After Death, Loss, or Suicide
• Touched by Suicide: Hope and Healing After Loss
• Life After Suicide: Finding Courage, Comfort & Community After Unthinkable Loss
• Night Falls Fast: Understanding Suicide
• After Suicide Loss: Coping with Your Grief, 2nd Edition
• The Forgotten Mourners: Sibling Survivors of Suicide
• It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand