Should I Stay Or Go?: How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage

Paperback. Pub Date: 1999 Pages: 304 in Publisher: Mcgraw-Hill Until now. Couples. Facing the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in an unhappy marriage had three options: individual or couples therapy. Separation. Or divorce. Should I Stay or Go provides these couples with a fourth option-the Controlled Separation (CS). Should I Stay or Go explains CS and shows how it can be used as a tool to help couples make the best decision for both partners. Lee Raffel. MSW. is founder and clinical director of Awareness Counseling Services. Inc. She has counseled couples for more than 25 years using the CS method.