Kissing or No Kissing: Whom Will You Save Your Kisses For? A Dating Guide to Creating Your Dreams

Flechelle points out the pitfalls of oxytocin bonding and, most especially, how to keep ones head clear of the intoxication resulting from the effects of this wonderful and powerful "love drug." In healthy relationships, oxytocin is an important component in order to keep women bonded to their men, but according to Flechelle, women would do better to keep their level of oxytocin at the lowest level possible until they have made a well informed decision about a man's potential as a husband, and possibly as a father for their children, before falling "in love" with him.