The first step, Learn about your mate, is to communicate with your spouse to understand what each partner desires in sexual intimacy.
Next, both partners must Experience the gospel by repenting from false beliefs and sin and believing the truth about what God has provided for enjoyment and greater oneness.
Next, couples must Set an Action Plan to apply this truth in their lives. Intimacy action plans include demonstrating agape commitment, courting that meets emotional needs, increasing frequency of sex, as well as improving sexual fun and freedom. All of these are progressive steps toward greater oneness.
Finally, a couple must Do it and Repeat, continuously progressing and following through in the process of achieving greater sexual intimacy in their marriage.