Ends to a Mean: The Dream

Most men and women have a dream relationship in their mind. Though they may differ in exact details, the dream begins the same. It goes a little something like this: I walk into the room... Our eyes meet... He walks up and the rest is history............. Sounds great does it not? Ah history. This history is what we desire but if history has taught us nothing it is that his story is usually not her story....... Historically speaking that is. The problem with history is that it is not the present and while history can be learned from, application of that knowledge has to be corrected for changes to the environment. All that to say: while the man/woman relationship has changed, the dream has not. This means we still want basically the same thing out of a relationship even though the dream seems to be extinct. What both men and women want does exist, it is just not that easy to find anymore. When you are looking for that one in a million person, sometimes you have to go through a million people to find that one. But who wants to spend their time on that pursuit? How many of you feel that your time is extremely valuable? How many of the same people just can not wait until they meet that special someone, fall in love and spend the rest of their life with them that they find themselves giving their all to a person whom they like a lot, but barely know? That doesn't seem like a good use for something that one deems as valuable. For those, needed is a tool that can be used to sort out your needs and wants to allow you to finally find happiness in yourself, because if you are not happy in yourself, even if you attract a positive attitude, your inner negativity will negate that positive. Ends to a Mean presents: The Dream provides the information that you will need to evaluate your current situation and decide for yourself what is best for you to do in that situation. Unfortunately, I cannot tell you what to do because I am not you. I can tell you what I would do but that may not help you because you are not me and you might not do things the way that I would do them. You might not feel what I feel. You may not speak how I speak so my words may not covey the same message coming out of your mouth because you may not say it how I would say it. Original thought sounds copied when repeated because the emotional attachment to the statement has been changed and you need the emotional attachment because: It is not always what you say; it is how you say it!