Alan tells us that we should define the success of a relationship by the quality of aliveness we experienced while the relationship thrived, and that although you may no longer have romantic love for each other, you can have a spiritual love that can endure forever. He calls this kind of love "Big Love".
"Big Lovers recognize that the key to enjoying a better relationship with your next partner is to appreciate the last one-for both the joys you shared and what you learned through the challenges."
If you are ready to move from fear and separateness to mutual empowerment, - if you are ready to grow beyond strife, -this book offers you a new vision and many tools to live by.