Alan is a master at building relationships. In People Tools for Love and Relationships he reveals time-proven techniques that you can use to enhance your connection with your partner, your family, your friends and everyone who is important to you.
Each chapter of the book illustrates a different "People Tool" using insightful stories and amusing anecdotes from Alan's life. From learning how to talk about money with your partner, how and when to apologize, to increasing trust and intimacy, each tool addresses a specific relationship issue and provides a simple, straightforward approach that you can adopt to create a positive result.
Some of the useful People Tools in the book include:
- How to be the right person. To build a successful life partnership, it's more important to learn to be the right person than it is to find the right person.
- The Best Defense is No Defense. While having a strong defense is helpful on the battlefield, being defensive in your relationships can cause serious problems.
- With All Faults. No one is perfect. In any relationship it is important to accept your partner as they are, including their faults.
- Catch Them Being Better. Rather than criticizing your partner for the qualities you might not like, try complimenting them for what you appreciate.