- Family issues: how to tell the relatives
- Practical matters: merging separate belongings, sharing a bathroom, divvying up chores
- Money issues: paying the bills, renting vs. buying
- Legal and other sticky matters: buying insurance together, rights for domestic partners, dealing with the "un"-laws
- Romantic pressures: keeping the relationship steamy when date night's become a thing of the past
Joselin Linder has a career that has spanned theater production to the startup of a fashion design company. She now produces film in New York. With her track record, it has been advised that she stick to dating men whose leases aren't ending but, alas, she and her boyfriend recently took the plunge.
Elena Donovan Mauer is a writer and editor specializing in relationships and women's service. Her writing has appeared in publications such as Psychology Today, Modern Bride, Lifetime magazine, and Bridal Guide. She and her live-in guy have been married since 2003. She lives in New York City.