FIRST AID FOR THE BETRAYED by Richard Alan, Expanded Edition, 2008

"This writing is extraordinary and unique. First, because it was written by a man whose wife had an affair. Most first-person writing about affairs has been from women. It contains some of the rawest honesty about the pain of an affair that I have ever read. It provides a great deal of hard-earned wisdom about the whole issue of affairs, particularly in healing from the devastation. I highly recommend this book to anyone who truly wants to know what it's like to deal with a spouse's affair - and to learn practical ways to recover and heal."
Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth

Written over a period of four years and based on his personal experience and those of over 100 others who have suffered the betrayal of a partner's adultery, in this second edition the author has captured the essence of the pain, anguish and inestimable psychological effects of a partner's affair.

This expanded edition has added three new chapters and additional information helpful to the reader in dealing with the other person, the offending spouse and other new information.