Are you tired of the tormenting questions about your partner’s affair that you can’t get out of your head?
Do you think that somehow you could not meet your spouse’s needs?
Do you wonder if you failed in your marriage by not doing something you were supposed to?
Are you tired of dealing with the excuses, both in terms of hearing them and falling for them?
Do you wonder if you are dealing with lies or denial?
Do you wonder how spying on your spouse will effect your relationship?
Are you at a loss when it comes time as to who should make the first move in working on your relationship?
Do you wonder whether you are dealing with cheating or a sexual addiction?
This Infidelity Guide will help you:
- Tell the difference between denial and lies.
- Avoid the wrong questions that often lead to more fights between the two of you and less affair recovery.
- Understand the many drives behind affairs and infidelity
- Understand whether you are dealing with an ‘affair’ or a sexual addiction
- Ways of helping your partner kill the feelings for the lover after the affair
- Issues about affairs addressed in this volume of the “After the Affair†series.
- Sexual addiction and affairs
- Spying and affairs
- The role of lying in affairs
- The role of denial in affairs
- What the cheaters choice in lovers says about them
- The role of money in dealing with affairs
Issues About Affairs and Difficult Situations Addressed in this Affair Book:
- The temptation to spy on the cheater and their lover
- Ways of dealing with the cheater blaming you for the affair
- Single women wanting to flirt with and hit on your husband
Special Section to Find Out if You Are Dealing with a Sexual Addiction
- The CHEAT test helps you sort out whether you are dealing with as sexual addiction or just an affair
- Knowing what you are dealing with makes a major difference in how you respond to it.
Rather than suffering through the affair feeling lost and confused, you can do something about it. You can also gain a clearer idea of what you are dealing with. You can know whether the problem is you, or them or something else. Knowing where the problem is will take a burden off of you and keep you from always second guessing with “What if..â€
The award-winning author and family counselor, Jeff Murrah has assembled a collection of his writing addressing the issues and topics that are often the source of emotional pain and mental confusion.
A Personal Note From the Author:
"After 30 years of dealing with infidelity in marriage, I have learned many lessons about where the pain comes from and what you can do about it. You can benefit from the experience of others so that you do not have to go through the same heartaches and mistakes."
"I have made the chapters short, which will keep you from being overwhelmed with too much information. You already have enough pain on your plate without being bombarded with 'homework' assignments."
Instead of wandering around confused about how to survive an affair, you can gain perspective and direction. You can move on with affair recovery that includes knowing how to deal with the lies, and knowing whether you are dealing with addictive behavior. You can have confidence in knowing what questions to avoid since they only stir up strife and do nothing to help your recovery.
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