He Said. She Said.: Eight Powerful Phrases That Will Strengthen Your Marriage

Your Marriage Is What You Say It Is

Words are powerful. They have the ability to build someone up or tear them down. And the words you use with your spouse pack an even bigger punch. But if communication is one of the keys to a healthy and happy relationship, how do you know which are the right words to say?

Practical, witty, and fun, He Said. She Said. explores the different needs of men and women. Eight powerful phrases--such as "I respect you," "I desire you," and "I believe in you"--will revolutionize communication between husbands and wives. Using true stories, interviews, research, and years of experience, the Laffoons equip couples with the tools they need to nurture one another. He Said. She Said. also includes discussion questions for church classes and small groups.


"Have a new marriage by the end of this book! The eight simple phrases contained in the Laffoons' latest offering will turn your marriage inside out and upside down, sending you head over heels in love again!"--Dr. Kevin Leman, author, Have a New Husband by Friday and Sheet Music

"Charmingly funny and inspirational. He Said. She Said. provides eight powerful phrases that can turn good marriages into better ones and bad marriages into successful ones."--Mitch Temple, author, The Marriage Turnaround; director of marriage and family, Focus on the Family

"He Said. She Said. is the stimulus package for realistic communication between a husband and wife! Get yourself a cup of coffee, find your favorite chair, and enjoy a read that really works!"--Dr. Dennis Swanberg, "The Minister of Encouragement"



Jay and Laura Laffoon are gifted and entertaining communicators who have inspired thousands of couples throughout North America with their Celebrate Your Marriage conferences. They are authors of The Spark and Make Love Every Day.