KEEPING IT REAL

The age old question: what is love?

Is love an expression or a feeling of deep emotion or is it just four letters? How do we determine what fits the way we really feel? Now if you just look at love like its four letters, then relationships are not for you and that’s not a bad thing; it’s just how you feel and you don’t want to waste anybody’s time.
Now let’s just talk about time. How much do you think your time is worth? Well if you can put a price on it then you have a lot going on, and you don’t have time for the bullshit.
Now sex on the first date to most women is a “hell no”. You’re thinking, “If I sleep with him now, is he going to think I’m a whore?” Maybe so, but if you waste the time to get to know him and it’s not worth it, what will you do? Now there’s time and feelings invested into this all new relationship. Do you just walk away or do you say, “Your sex was the worst and I don’t want to HAVE sex with you no more?!” Now that sounds hard and mean, but it’s the truth. So why not say it? In the back of your head you are thinking, “What if this dude is crazy and he won’t take it easy?” So you begin to live a lie and you start to cheat, argue, and fight. In the back of your head you really wanted to keep it real, but you didn’t know everything seemed crazy. You really don’t know what to do next. Keeping it real now seems just a little too late. Because now you learned his crazy side
It will look like you’re just telling him this to justify what you’ve been doing. Hmm, let’s not go that far into that. Some of you are living that right now. Let’s go back to the top of this whole story and think if on that first night it wasn’t a “hell no” you could have said this now, “We can do this, but I don’t want you to take this the wrong way. If your shot is not hitting for shit, we will just go our separate ways. You don’t call me and I won’t call you!”
The dilemma is the “what if?” What if he rocks your world, and floats your boat? What you do? Do you explore his life or was it just about sex, or do you walk away and say it was a good fuck? What will I do? Well I have faith in my shot and walk away