Eloveator Ditches: A Management Consultant's 6C-Framework to Breaking up without Screwing up

Unless you are Hugh Hefner, one is exactly the number of happily ever afters you're entitled to in your entire life - and we're talking best-case scenario here! The bottom line is that all your other intimate relationships are going to end. Breakups outnumber lasting relationships by a factor 5 to 1 - hands down.

If you're anything close to a normal human being, chances are that you suck at breaking up. I'm even willing to bet that you've already screwed up a breakup or two in the past, regardless of how pure your intentions were. We screw up our breakups because we don’t consider breaking up as a goal to accomplish, in a structure and thoughtful manner.

What if there was a generic rulebook to breaking up? Could it elevate many breakups' status from downright awful to good enough?

If you’re initiating a separation, you can and should take full accountability for the process of breaking up. You have a multitude of choices to make along the way. Each of these decisions comes with two options: to behave with care, or to disregard the feelings of you partner.

Eloveator Ditches proposes a series of recommendations that have the power to make breakups less traumatic and less painful than you expect them to be. The 6C-framework to breaking up without screwing up leverages certainty, command, coordination, contingency, communication and completion to minimise damage during breakups.

Eloveator Ditches doesn’t advocate more breakups, but offers hands-on advice to minimise the avoidable screw-ups!