Divorce Doesn't Work: But This Does

What’s going on when about 50% of intimate relationships split up just when they’re about to breakthrough? In that 50% there is emotional pain, broken lives and financial devastation. Divorce happens because of an illusion; that it leads to something better. Sorry but that just doesn’t happen! The end of a relationship is devastating and 5 years down the track, the majority of people wish they hadn't! People do it because they see no other way. That’s understandable because just before breakthrough things do seem to be impossible. That’s what happens when you are really close to huge benefits by the way. The worst is that ‘innocents’ get caught up in the process - children, extended family and mutual friends. There is just no way to protect these people. This book is about how emotions make and break relationships and what you need to do to have a relationship better than you ever thought possible, especially with the partner you’ve got now. The fact is, relationship breakdown doesn’t have to happen. People think that if their relationship is not going so well, then they need to get out before too much damage is done so they can find someone better. I couldn't agree less! The problem is that the wonderful 'someone better' almost always turns out to a new version of what you just left. Yes there is a better way and this book shows it to you. In this book you find out how to; • Turn problems and challenges into transformational experiences, • Make your partner your Perfect Partner when the going is tough, • Use conflict and argument to make relationships grow, • Avoid the pitfalls of procrastination, • Have the best life possible with the partner you are with, • Have healthy and vital relationships that keep getting better, • Understand the cycle of emotional growth, • Apply the cycle of emotional growth to your relationships and your life.