If You Were Me: the memoir of a mother torn between doing what's right and what's easy

The exchange was simple:  the closet for custody.  The small town mother, school teacher, and newly-out lesbian lived a quiet life for nearly a year.  No rainbow explosion - no bracelets, no flags.  Don't ask, don't tell.  Suddenly faced with a petition that called her amoral and unstable, the prospect of losing her kids made hiding a seductive solution.  After a lifetime of lies, what was one more?