Why Black Men Leave Home

Are more black men abandoning black women for other races? Or, are more so-called "good" black women simply whining more about the scarcity of good black men? Too many black women believe that "good" black women are in abundance but black men are rare, which feeds the media perception that all black men are good-for-nothings who are either gay, in prison, or fooling around with white women. Too many black women presume that the only reason black men date white women is because white women are easier to pick up, freakier in bed, or more submissive. Others say that black men fear strong, independent black women. All of this is just an excuse for why they do not, and may never have, that elusive "good" black man these women of other cultures seemingly have stolen from them. Simply put, too many black women set high standards for the type of man they want, yet lower their own standards for themselves with their low-class wardrobes, foul attitudes, abundance of illegitimate children, self-esteem and relationship issues, potty mouths, man-hating musicals of R&B "hits", and materialistic wants. Too many black women are quick to dismiss black men, and then complain that there are no good black men when they themselves drove most of them away in the first place. Then when they see a black man with a non-black woman, these same black women whine about how black men are abandoning black women. Maybe black women don't have the man they want because they're the ones abandoning the good black men first? ...Hmmm?