Foreplay - the real focus of great sex
Book Details
PublisherBooks To Believe In
ISBN / ASINB004C053QA
ISBN-13978B004C053Q0
Sales Rank482,581
MarketplaceUnited States 🇺🇸
Description
Doctor, Clinical Psychologist, Husband, Wife and Sex Coaches, Drs. Othniel Seiden and Jane L. Bilett let you in on a fantastic secret - Foreplay, The True Focus of Great Sex.
Through their research and their work with struggling couples, Seiden and Bilett discovered that if couples got back to the basics of truly great foreplay, their sex lives improved dramatically.
Inside are ideas, answers to typical questions - both health and psychological. If you want your sex life to improve, then remember the main ingredient. If you want to make that better, then get this book!
WHAT'S THE REAL GOAL?
When planning a banquet or even a simple meal we don't usually start thinking about the dessert first, though some with a real sweet tooth may. However, most of us would probably agree that getting the main course entree right should be priority one. Then we might think about the appetizers and finally the dessert.
Now let's think about our sexual banquets the same way. Too many of us think about the dessert or sexual intercourse as the main goal. What this book hopes to get across to you is that the sexual banquet should also have an appetizer, entree or main dish and finally the dessert. And like the banquet meal we hope to enjoy, it is a successfully enjoyed entree which is the real goal of our sexual banquet. That main goal is a wildly satisfying and erotic foreplay. And like an extremely satisfying meal, the dessert follows, not as the main goal, but a happy final ending to be followed by a relaxing afterglow.
To make these concepts easier to understand and accept might require a few simple changes in attitude and realization.
# First of the attitude changes is that during foreplay the major goal is not preparation for intercourse, rather to achieve not only an orgasm, but as many orgasms as possible and that's for both partners.
# Secondly, the main purpose for your foreplay is not your own pleasure but to give your partner the greatest pleasure you can.
# Third, later in this book you will learn, if you do not already know, that both men and women are capable of multiple orgasms. If you're not already achieving this you'll learn how.
For women multiple orgasm is almost a given, though some women may have difficulty achieving orgasm. If you are among the few who have not achieved orgasm or do so with difficulty, this information is intended to help you remedy that, and then go on to be able to have multiple orgasms.
Men, don't feel cheated. You too can enjoy multiple orgasms, many, many multiple orgasms. You will learn that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate events, and you and your partner will learn how to distinguish when orgasm ends and ejaculation begins. Once this is learned you'll be able to control your orgasms and avoid ejaculation until you and your partner are fully satisfied and let your final orgasm end with ejaculation. Never fear, orgasm without ejaculation is every bit as satisfying as with, but it lets you enjoy the sensation over and over again, each subsequent orgasm is more intense than the previous.
Through their research and their work with struggling couples, Seiden and Bilett discovered that if couples got back to the basics of truly great foreplay, their sex lives improved dramatically.
Inside are ideas, answers to typical questions - both health and psychological. If you want your sex life to improve, then remember the main ingredient. If you want to make that better, then get this book!
WHAT'S THE REAL GOAL?
When planning a banquet or even a simple meal we don't usually start thinking about the dessert first, though some with a real sweet tooth may. However, most of us would probably agree that getting the main course entree right should be priority one. Then we might think about the appetizers and finally the dessert.
Now let's think about our sexual banquets the same way. Too many of us think about the dessert or sexual intercourse as the main goal. What this book hopes to get across to you is that the sexual banquet should also have an appetizer, entree or main dish and finally the dessert. And like the banquet meal we hope to enjoy, it is a successfully enjoyed entree which is the real goal of our sexual banquet. That main goal is a wildly satisfying and erotic foreplay. And like an extremely satisfying meal, the dessert follows, not as the main goal, but a happy final ending to be followed by a relaxing afterglow.
To make these concepts easier to understand and accept might require a few simple changes in attitude and realization.
# First of the attitude changes is that during foreplay the major goal is not preparation for intercourse, rather to achieve not only an orgasm, but as many orgasms as possible and that's for both partners.
# Secondly, the main purpose for your foreplay is not your own pleasure but to give your partner the greatest pleasure you can.
# Third, later in this book you will learn, if you do not already know, that both men and women are capable of multiple orgasms. If you're not already achieving this you'll learn how.
For women multiple orgasm is almost a given, though some women may have difficulty achieving orgasm. If you are among the few who have not achieved orgasm or do so with difficulty, this information is intended to help you remedy that, and then go on to be able to have multiple orgasms.
Men, don't feel cheated. You too can enjoy multiple orgasms, many, many multiple orgasms. You will learn that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate events, and you and your partner will learn how to distinguish when orgasm ends and ejaculation begins. Once this is learned you'll be able to control your orgasms and avoid ejaculation until you and your partner are fully satisfied and let your final orgasm end with ejaculation. Never fear, orgasm without ejaculation is every bit as satisfying as with, but it lets you enjoy the sensation over and over again, each subsequent orgasm is more intense than the previous.
