Suck It Up Buttercup - Finding Personal Power After Divorce, Heartache or Personal Disappointment

A huge segment of the population live life in a state of unhappiness caused by depression after divorce or similar personal disappointment. If you are amongst them and long to rediscover happiness and create positive changes to live an amazing life, this book is intended for you.

Many people remain trapped waiting for “time” to heal their troubles. Though there is some truth in this concept (to a degree), the problem is “time” often takes it’s time and does little to improve self esteem or heal the “root cause” of our issues. In the meantime, we are left to wait struggling with years of heartache & sorrow and unable to live authentic happy lives.

Feeling insecure, physically & mentally drained and not to mention financially challenged has a remarkable way of diminishing the gift of life. Being locked in a state of sadness and insecurity makes it very difficult to move forward to improve with an optimistic and stress free outlook. Even more challenging is being kept both ‘broken and ‘broke” by a difficult non-contributing ex as so many are.

It really is a horrible place to be!

On the upside however, there truly is hope and far more to life than the one you may have become accustomed to. There are things you can do to vastly improve your quality of life and subsequently learn to live in the moment and once again feel happiness and fulfillment.

This book is written from the heart to share easy to implement strategies and ideas to “part the clouds”. You will glean inspirational suggestions and encouragement to help you to not only bounce back, but way ahead! There is so much you are capable of creating, you just need to be energized, empowered and shown how to uncover it.


I will not suggest you “suck it up" or "snap out of it" immediately. Instead I have laid out a variety of options to help you to heal first and foremost… and then move on to further create positive life changes on a solid, stable foundation.

Coping with divorce, healing a broken heart, and making positive changes is not easy when feeling alone and insecure. The harsh reality is however, a stand must be taken and effort must be made if you want to change your life for the better and move on to enjoy the rest of it before it’s too late. After all, life IS far too short not to enjoy the time on earth while we are here to do so.

Why should you listen to me?

Ultimately the choice is yours, but being I have lived through one of the most difficult divorce situations, grappled with the all time worst depression, and was literally stuck and wanting to die, I do know a thing or two about it!

Furthermore, I came through it! I learned to move on after divorce (even though I thought I never would). I found solutions to heal and made the decision create my own positive life changes and succeeded. With this being shared, I do feel somewhat of an expert on what works and what doesn’t.

I am of the opinion that experience always speaks louder than ‘theory’ and personally I do not feel ‘letters’ after your name or fancy degrees are always necessary to solve some of the issues we face.

More often than not, the major component to helping others heal is often due to a first hand understanding and familiarity with the raw pain, and personally knowing and sharing effective ways to find the strength to get past it.

If you are sick and tired of feeling stuck, sad and strapped for cash and you are ready to heal, move on, and entertain suggestions to create your own economy I’m hoping you’ll find at least some wisdom, inspiration and empowerment on the pages within.

There is life after divorce, heartache and disappointment, and eventually coming to terms to clear and reprogram your thoughts to get to the point you can suck it up, will enhance mental and physical energy. This improvement with help lift your spirits and propel you forward to make incredible life changes to feel authentic happiness once again...just in a different way!