THAI Dating Code: The Guidebook for Getting to Know DECENT Thai Girls
Book Details
PublisherBangkok Matching Co.,Ltd
ISBN / ASINB008QCV2GA
ISBN-13978B008QCV2G2
MarketplaceCanada 🇨🇦
Description
Author: Bee – Kulchulee Subsinudom/
The Well Known Matchmaker/Dating Coach in Thailand
Thailand is paradise for Westerners who want to date pretty young ladies. Finding a date with a comely Thai woman is easy, but finding the right girl with more to offer than a pretty face and an attractive figure – like education, fluent English and a cosmopolitan background – is much more difficult. And once you find her, getting a date, establishing a relationship and dealing with the inevitable problems of a cross-cultural relationship, including marriage and raising a family, can turn out to be a big headache.
Topics include:
ïµ Categories of Thai girls
ïµ Where to Meet
ïµ What Thai Girls Want
ïµ Approaching Thai Girls
ïµ Good Places for a First Date
ïµ How to Act on a First Date and Subsequent Dates
ïµ How to Tell If She Likes You
ïµ Dealing with Thai Personalities
ïµ Money Issues
ïµ Making Her Happy
ïµ Expressing Feelings of Affection
ïµ Meeting Her Family
ïµ Public Displays of Affection
ïµ Beyond the First Kiss
ïµ Ending a Relationship
ïµ Living Together
ïµ When to Marry
ïµ Engagement
ïµ Dowry
ïµ Wedding Ceremony
ïµ The Wife’s and Husband's Role
ïµ Raising Children
ïµ And etc.
Who said you can’t have it all? You can, but you have to know what you are doing. This book provides the answers and a roadmap for dealing with dating, love and marriage in the Land of Smiles.
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For over six years now, I have been running my own upscale matchmaking service company in Bangkok for professionals who are well-educated, well-groomed, attractive and successful. My work involves dealing with a wide range of clients, including Thais, Asians and foreigners. I provide tips on dating, all the way from planning the first date to post-date advice and follow up.
Trust me when I say that it matters not a jot how professional you may be. When it comes to dating, we are all pretty much after the same thing, but there are significant differences in the way we go about it. These variations include the way we wish to be approached, the way we want to be courted and the way we expect to be treated.
Despite everyone aspiring to the same thing, most of us have few clues about how to go about the courtship process. It used to come as a bit of a surprise to me that a Western executive from a multinational company, who has to confront competitors on a daily basis and participate in heated boardroom discussions, hasn't a clue about how to deal with a lovely, petite Thai woman. But more often than not, this is the case.
Perhaps this is to be expected. After all, it’s widely joked that men and women come from two different planets, the lady from Venus and the man from Mars. And believe me, these planetary differences are greatly amplified when it comes to mixed race and multi-cultural relationships, like the ones I deal with on a daily basis.
The mistakes made by foreigners bent upon courting Thai women are numerous and relatively easy to categorise. One of the most common errors is to assume that all Thai ladies are alike. They aren't!
I often have a difficult time explaining to well intentioned executives that the rules for dating a poorly educated Thai lady who works in a bar are completely different from those applying to a successful, well-educated lady who works for a large company. The latter are far more shy and sensitive than a bar girl and courting her is an involved process with a lot of rules about how it should be conducted.
Many of my new male clients, for example, get turned down long before they even reach the starting point. They are unable to get a date, failing miserably from being overly aggressive or showing too much interest. Thai ladies often consider such behaviour to be annoying or, in extreme cases, even psycho.
Then there are the foreign men who give the young ladies a business card on the first date. After returning with positive reviews, I advise them to follow up with a second date soon.....
The Well Known Matchmaker/Dating Coach in Thailand
Thailand is paradise for Westerners who want to date pretty young ladies. Finding a date with a comely Thai woman is easy, but finding the right girl with more to offer than a pretty face and an attractive figure – like education, fluent English and a cosmopolitan background – is much more difficult. And once you find her, getting a date, establishing a relationship and dealing with the inevitable problems of a cross-cultural relationship, including marriage and raising a family, can turn out to be a big headache.
Topics include:
ïµ Categories of Thai girls
ïµ Where to Meet
ïµ What Thai Girls Want
ïµ Approaching Thai Girls
ïµ Good Places for a First Date
ïµ How to Act on a First Date and Subsequent Dates
ïµ How to Tell If She Likes You
ïµ Dealing with Thai Personalities
ïµ Money Issues
ïµ Making Her Happy
ïµ Expressing Feelings of Affection
ïµ Meeting Her Family
ïµ Public Displays of Affection
ïµ Beyond the First Kiss
ïµ Ending a Relationship
ïµ Living Together
ïµ When to Marry
ïµ Engagement
ïµ Dowry
ïµ Wedding Ceremony
ïµ The Wife’s and Husband's Role
ïµ Raising Children
ïµ And etc.
Who said you can’t have it all? You can, but you have to know what you are doing. This book provides the answers and a roadmap for dealing with dating, love and marriage in the Land of Smiles.
----------------------------------------------
For over six years now, I have been running my own upscale matchmaking service company in Bangkok for professionals who are well-educated, well-groomed, attractive and successful. My work involves dealing with a wide range of clients, including Thais, Asians and foreigners. I provide tips on dating, all the way from planning the first date to post-date advice and follow up.
Trust me when I say that it matters not a jot how professional you may be. When it comes to dating, we are all pretty much after the same thing, but there are significant differences in the way we go about it. These variations include the way we wish to be approached, the way we want to be courted and the way we expect to be treated.
Despite everyone aspiring to the same thing, most of us have few clues about how to go about the courtship process. It used to come as a bit of a surprise to me that a Western executive from a multinational company, who has to confront competitors on a daily basis and participate in heated boardroom discussions, hasn't a clue about how to deal with a lovely, petite Thai woman. But more often than not, this is the case.
Perhaps this is to be expected. After all, it’s widely joked that men and women come from two different planets, the lady from Venus and the man from Mars. And believe me, these planetary differences are greatly amplified when it comes to mixed race and multi-cultural relationships, like the ones I deal with on a daily basis.
The mistakes made by foreigners bent upon courting Thai women are numerous and relatively easy to categorise. One of the most common errors is to assume that all Thai ladies are alike. They aren't!
I often have a difficult time explaining to well intentioned executives that the rules for dating a poorly educated Thai lady who works in a bar are completely different from those applying to a successful, well-educated lady who works for a large company. The latter are far more shy and sensitive than a bar girl and courting her is an involved process with a lot of rules about how it should be conducted.
Many of my new male clients, for example, get turned down long before they even reach the starting point. They are unable to get a date, failing miserably from being overly aggressive or showing too much interest. Thai ladies often consider such behaviour to be annoying or, in extreme cases, even psycho.
Then there are the foreign men who give the young ladies a business card on the first date. After returning with positive reviews, I advise them to follow up with a second date soon.....
