Alpha Male: The Art Of Approaching Women
Book Details
Author(s)James Marcus
PublisherSolstice Media Inc.
ISBN / ASINB009ES5I0G
ISBN-13978B009ES5I08
Sales Rank975,980
MarketplaceUnited States 🇺🇸
Description
How to Talk to Women - My Favorite Conversation Technique
Why are many men so apprehensive or nervous when approaching and conversing with women, particularly if the woman is very attractive? For some men, conversing with women is a challenge because some men have inner self-confidence issues. They do not have self-assurance and stifle themselves because of baseless thinking.
When they see an attractive woman they like, they will come up with reason to not to talk with her. Most of the time the reasons are because they have predetermined ideas about what type of person they need to be to approach the woman, and they think that they do not fit the correct standards.
However, there are other men, such as myself, where the anxiousness come from not know what they should talk about. If you do not have great conversational skills, or no idea what you are going to say after you approach a woman and say hello, then talking with women can be an intimidating experience for you.
A Mistake I Often Made When Talking to Women
I was once accountable for this myself when I would talk to women. In some scenarios I remember, in which I approached a girl and introduced myself, things would seem alright in within the first few minutes. We would be talking about a topic that we both enjoyed, or a person that both of us knew of, and it would seem as though she was interest in me. However, after this phase, then the conversation always began to die down.
I would then not know what I should talk about subsequently, or attempt come up with a witty question to ask her, whatever I could do to relieve the uncomfortable silence. I would then blank out while forcing myself to think of anything to say, and I would notice her attention diminishing.
She would stare at her watch, or begin glimpsing around the area. Basically searching for an exit out of the conversation, after which I would receive a polite dismissal. Something like “It was nice to meet you," or “I’ve found my friends." Then she would leave my life for good. Following years of spending time with some of the best “pick up artists” and watching what they do, I came up with a method which makes it impossible to run of conversational matter.
Try This Great Approach When Chatting with Women…
The method I came up with is what I call “hooks and ladders." I will now explain how and why this works, try utilizing it in your upcoming conversations.
The “hook” is something that the other person brings up which you can change into a conversation either at the beginning or middle of the encounter.
The “ladder” is any chance in the discussion where you can put a positive view yourself in the other person’s mind that will make them have a better attitude towards you.
The basic idea is that whenever you are having a conversation with a woman, you should be on the lookout for hooks and turn them into ladders.
Prior to providing you with an example, I would like you to ponder three topics that you would normally converse with a beautiful woman about; good topics which demonstrate your best qualities. This could include your interests, passions, ambitions, talents, or experiences. So if the conversation runs into one of these subjects you will be well prepared to talk about them.
My three are: Music, writing and travel. I am well versed in these categories, and when I talk about them, I can create positive ideas in the other persons’ mind about myself.
Let’s use travel for this example. I have traveled to many interesting places, and there are plenty of countries and cities I would like to visit in the future.
Trying asking a standard question such as, “Do you like traveling?”
I like to put a twist on this instead, I’ll say something like, “Amy, you appear to be a person who leads an exciting lifestyle, would it be right to guess that you have done some traveling. So suppose I asked you, “If we could be transported to any place in the world right this minute, where would you like to be?
Why are many men so apprehensive or nervous when approaching and conversing with women, particularly if the woman is very attractive? For some men, conversing with women is a challenge because some men have inner self-confidence issues. They do not have self-assurance and stifle themselves because of baseless thinking.
When they see an attractive woman they like, they will come up with reason to not to talk with her. Most of the time the reasons are because they have predetermined ideas about what type of person they need to be to approach the woman, and they think that they do not fit the correct standards.
However, there are other men, such as myself, where the anxiousness come from not know what they should talk about. If you do not have great conversational skills, or no idea what you are going to say after you approach a woman and say hello, then talking with women can be an intimidating experience for you.
A Mistake I Often Made When Talking to Women
I was once accountable for this myself when I would talk to women. In some scenarios I remember, in which I approached a girl and introduced myself, things would seem alright in within the first few minutes. We would be talking about a topic that we both enjoyed, or a person that both of us knew of, and it would seem as though she was interest in me. However, after this phase, then the conversation always began to die down.
I would then not know what I should talk about subsequently, or attempt come up with a witty question to ask her, whatever I could do to relieve the uncomfortable silence. I would then blank out while forcing myself to think of anything to say, and I would notice her attention diminishing.
She would stare at her watch, or begin glimpsing around the area. Basically searching for an exit out of the conversation, after which I would receive a polite dismissal. Something like “It was nice to meet you," or “I’ve found my friends." Then she would leave my life for good. Following years of spending time with some of the best “pick up artists” and watching what they do, I came up with a method which makes it impossible to run of conversational matter.
Try This Great Approach When Chatting with Women…
The method I came up with is what I call “hooks and ladders." I will now explain how and why this works, try utilizing it in your upcoming conversations.
The “hook” is something that the other person brings up which you can change into a conversation either at the beginning or middle of the encounter.
The “ladder” is any chance in the discussion where you can put a positive view yourself in the other person’s mind that will make them have a better attitude towards you.
The basic idea is that whenever you are having a conversation with a woman, you should be on the lookout for hooks and turn them into ladders.
Prior to providing you with an example, I would like you to ponder three topics that you would normally converse with a beautiful woman about; good topics which demonstrate your best qualities. This could include your interests, passions, ambitions, talents, or experiences. So if the conversation runs into one of these subjects you will be well prepared to talk about them.
My three are: Music, writing and travel. I am well versed in these categories, and when I talk about them, I can create positive ideas in the other persons’ mind about myself.
Let’s use travel for this example. I have traveled to many interesting places, and there are plenty of countries and cities I would like to visit in the future.
Trying asking a standard question such as, “Do you like traveling?”
I like to put a twist on this instead, I’ll say something like, “Amy, you appear to be a person who leads an exciting lifestyle, would it be right to guess that you have done some traveling. So suppose I asked you, “If we could be transported to any place in the world right this minute, where would you like to be?
