The 10 Secrets to Winning the Heart of the Black Man

Two things I know now to be true 1. Most men are afraid to let women know how they really feel 2. Women have based their interactions with men on falsehoods (probably told to them by their mothers or older sisters). Believe me, no one knows more about a man than a man. We just aren't talking. Think about it...we're to proud to admit when we hurt, frustrated or don't have all the answers. We think that makes us look weak in the eyes of women. So if we have a problem just owning p to these few things...how much more are we not owning up to? In this book I've revealed the secrets of the "Man Code" (at great risk to my survival...just kidding). But what I'm not kidding about is the deep honest truths I've written in this book about what we men really feel about our relationship with women we love. The secrets I've exposed in this book you'll never get your man to tell you. He can't. It would require him to do the one thing all men fear the most...be vulnerable. Ironically, this is what women say they want but when they get it most use it against their man. To control him...to hurt him. Its what they say about power, "Power corrupts, but absolute power corrupts absolutely". How do I know? Because I've given myself to a woman - mind, body and soul. Became vulnerable...helplessly, hopelessly in love. Why? Because I truly loved her and was willingly to do what most men wont...believe. My sister (God bless her) told me that women don't see love like men do. Men believe love is an emotional experience (that's why its so difficult for us- we don't have much experience with being emotional). Women (she said) see love as not just an emotional experience but a logical experience as well. Can he protect me, provide for me, procreate with me. Then the light went on. We (men) had been viewing love from the wrong paradigm. All this time we believed love to be this illogical emotional experience women wanted us to go through with them when in fact emotions are very logical to women (as logical as protection, provision and procreation). So since she 'enlightened' me, let me 'enlighten' you. Let me share with you what men won't ever tell you. How he feels, and why he feels. But first you have to clear your mind of everything you've ever thought you knew about men. What I share with you now is like nothing you've heard, experience or thought about before. "The Ten Secrets to Winning the Heart of a Black Man" is a book that will give you a lot of "aha" moments as well as touch you at the core of your soul. If you are in a relationship with a black man, yet you sense "somethings missing". Read this book. If you are considering entering into a true relationship with a black man and you really want it to be much more than "surface" experience. Read this book. If you are one of the few women who are married to black men and are stilled "confused" by him. Read this book. I can't promise you that this book will everything alright in your relationship with black men...but I can promise you the truth. What you do with this truth will determine what happens next. God bless.