How to Prevent Adultery the Ethical Way: Spouses cheat and get away with it when they're TOO BIG TO FAIL

Steve O’Reilly Presents: How to Prevent Adultery the Ethical Way: Spouses cheat and get away with it when they're TOO BIG TO FAIL

See why Bob the Mechanic and Mr. Too Big to Fail plays by different rules when in comes to fidelity, or a lack of it.

-Meet Bob the Mechanic: he may not be the most talented man in the world, but he may be trustworthy and reliable, something of great value. But without trust, there's nothing of any real value he can offer. Bob the Mechanic can't play the drunken genius vomiting all over the dinner table with others scrambling to make excuses for him.-

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-Meet Mr. Too Big to Fail: when one man's fate is intertwined with the fates of many. When the destinies and even identities of loved ones are "too" entangled with the fame, money, and power of a man deciding to be unfaithful, then punishing him would be punishing themselves.-


EXCERPT

"We are living in a new world where shame is supposed to be felt by the one who has been betrayed, not the one who has betrayed."

"What use is a heart if it doesn't yearn to protect those we made promises to? Some people, many people, cheat for no other reason than being unable to control their bodies and minds in the face of temptation. They justify this by following their hearts while breaking someone else's."

"When Ms. Saving Up for Rainy Days marries Mr. We Only Live Once Impulse Buyer, then both spouses may feel cheated out of their ideal relationship. This causes resentment deep inside, building pressure and ready to pop mushroom cloud-style. Eventually, the words "controlling" and "abusive" may be thrown around, making the whole relationship nauseating and radioactive."


Questions Answered

* What are some major real-life examples of how couples can prevent cheating?

* Why do opposite-sex friends claiming they’re "just friends" always seem to have more to the story?

* Why do famous men seem to get away with cheating? And why do other groups of men not get away with it?

* Do successful men cheat because they see other men getting away with it, still loved and admired despite their cheating?

* When a spouse engages in a romantic affair outside the marriage, how is it viewed by society?

* What about when people have done all they can to satisfy their partner?

* But sometimes it is more complicated than just falling into temptation. Are there times when someone is asking to get cheated on?

* What about false claims of abuse?

* So when spouses simply have conflicting values, that can create a situation interpreted as abusive?

* What are some of the reasons that responsible people cheat?

* A lack of virtue in one spouse can cause the other to cheat?

* Let's talk about preventing it. Where do promises come in?