THE ART OF LOVING: WHY WE ARE ONE
Book Details
Author(s)FOLORUNSHO MEJABI
PublisherMEJABI BOOKS & PUBLISHING
ISBN / ASINB00QS2HXR2
ISBN-13978B00QS2HXR0
MarketplaceCanada 🇨🇦
Description
“Once upon a time ….A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his wife, who had very long hair, asked him to buy her a comb for her hair to grow well and to be well-groomed. The man felt very sorry and said no. He explained that he did not even have enough money to fix the strap of his watch he had just broken.
She did not insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.
He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short haircut. She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.
Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their loveâ€
To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is everything
There are many things in life that your husband cannot control, but one he can control is effort. It brings him great pleasure to work hard and see the results. To directly control, and be the man responsible for creating something from nothing thrills him. Encourage his great work ethic by understanding and be a help in what he needs.When a man serves his wife, he wants her to recognize it. A simple "thank you" is all he needs.
Love is like a game of football, nobody will appreciate your skill until you display it. Likewise your husband will not know how much you love him until you demonstrate it.
As simple as it sounds, husbands want to know that their wives are content in their marriage, and truly enjoy just being with them. When is the last time you thanked your husband for marrying you? Don't just assume he knows. Tell him!
It is high time women take their rightful position in the family, not waiting for their men to act but take the bull by the horn and be ready to live a happy, peaceful family.It is no longer the responsibility of man alone to make the move, women also need to understand and move to action about who their real man is.
On the other hand, a real man, the kind of man a woman wants to give her life to, is one who will respect her dignity, who will honour her like the valuable treasure she is. A real man will not attempt to rip her precious pearl from its protective shell, or persuade her with charm to give away her treasure prematurely, but he will wait patiently until she willingly gives him the prize of her heart. A real man will cherish and care for that prize forever.
But to achieve that, you need to understand, encourage, love and appreciate your man to be LOVING MAN. This is what this book is all about-THE ART OF LOVING: why we are one.
She did not insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife.
He came home in the evening with the comb in his hand ready to give to his wife.
He was surprised when he saw his wife with a very short haircut. She had sold her hair and was holding a new watch band.
Tears flowed simultaneously from their eyes, not for the futility of their actions, but for the reciprocity of their loveâ€
To love is nothing, to be loved is something but to love and to be loved by the one you love, that is everything
There are many things in life that your husband cannot control, but one he can control is effort. It brings him great pleasure to work hard and see the results. To directly control, and be the man responsible for creating something from nothing thrills him. Encourage his great work ethic by understanding and be a help in what he needs.When a man serves his wife, he wants her to recognize it. A simple "thank you" is all he needs.
Love is like a game of football, nobody will appreciate your skill until you display it. Likewise your husband will not know how much you love him until you demonstrate it.
As simple as it sounds, husbands want to know that their wives are content in their marriage, and truly enjoy just being with them. When is the last time you thanked your husband for marrying you? Don't just assume he knows. Tell him!
It is high time women take their rightful position in the family, not waiting for their men to act but take the bull by the horn and be ready to live a happy, peaceful family.It is no longer the responsibility of man alone to make the move, women also need to understand and move to action about who their real man is.
On the other hand, a real man, the kind of man a woman wants to give her life to, is one who will respect her dignity, who will honour her like the valuable treasure she is. A real man will not attempt to rip her precious pearl from its protective shell, or persuade her with charm to give away her treasure prematurely, but he will wait patiently until she willingly gives him the prize of her heart. A real man will cherish and care for that prize forever.
But to achieve that, you need to understand, encourage, love and appreciate your man to be LOVING MAN. This is what this book is all about-THE ART OF LOVING: why we are one.
