It has been said that addiction is a victimless crime, but those who love people who are addicted to one substance or another know better. Not only are addicts victims of their own disease, but the lives of those of us who love them are deeply affected, too. If you know--or suspect--you love and perhaps even live with an addict, this little booklet is written for you, an account of what worked for me, some of which might work for you, too.