Courage to Heal: How to: Step by step guide to heal emotional pain with chronic illness

I have been tumor free for over 13 years, did I have a secret? Yes, I had a skill, I learned it from being in the health care world for over 20 years. I learned it, and you can too. Taking control in the aiding of healing yourself is a skill. I had to apply every skill in my pocket of tips and tricks to live when the sonogram results arrived and I discovered I had a soft ball size tumor surrounding my pancreas and stealing the blood from my spleen and gallbladder.
As a nurse, I have seen life threatening illnesses affect people differently, some healed and continued on their life journey and others passed away. They had the same illness, so why do some people live and others fail to survive? The answer is simple, the basic feeling of emotional attachment to the illness makes the difference. The energy and thoughts given to illness are there regardless if it is negative energy, or positive energy. An opinion of the illness will be formed, it is up to you to decide what your emotional attachment will be, negative or positive. Please allow this to be a guide if you are a care giver in any fashion and if you are the one dealing with emotional pain toward illness.