This book is my parenting story;how to manage the challenging moments and have better understanding of the situations, the child and myself. I majored in early child education and worked as a child care teacher in New Zealand so I thought I know what I need to know about how to raise and educate the child but. I was wrong. Being a mother is much harder than I ever thought. I realized that I had too much pressure on and high expectation about my child as well as myself. I needed to be realistic and wanted to be better in what I was doing with my child. Whenever I face the challenging moments I did researches and wrote it down-how I applied it into my practices and how it worked. I want to share with others who feel stress and experience difficulties in parenting, just like me. I hope this book can be a reminder of what you already know or help you refresh your daily parenting.