Be the Cat: The Feline Guide to a Great Relationship on Your Terms

Have you ever noticed when you come home, and your dog is so excited to see you and just can’t contain himself. He is jumping up and down and begging you to “pet me pleeeeeease”, while at the same time the cat sits on the other side of the room, seemingly uninterested in your presence, acting like he just couldn’t care less if you’re there or not. Your cat doesn’t love you any less than your dog does, but he would never let you see that. Have you ever noticed when a cat slips or trips and they jump up and act like “I meant to do that”? Cats are just too cool for school. And what do we do? We fawn all over them. We pick them up and cuddle them. We try to pet them even when they don’t want us to. We try to get their attention and get them to pay attention to us, as they look off into the distance, ignoring us. We chase them and follow them around. What is it about the mysterious feline that has us so captivated? And what can we learn from these wonderful and elusive creatures that can help us in our own relationships? I’ll show you how being more like the cat can raise your self-esteem, make you more self-reliant and conquer your neediness. Cats want us to think they “don’t need nobody”, and that’s a good place to be. Wanting someone in your life is wonderful. Needing someone isn’t. Learn to Be the Cat and you’ll be the self-sufficient person you were meant to be.