Can I Trust You With My Pain

As the saying goes "Hurting people hurt people" for as long as you will be married you will experience moments your spouse suffers pain. As a help meet we should seek how to lend our support to our hurting spouse.
In like manner the hurting spouse should be cognizant of the fact their action during a time of hurt can push a loving spouse away.

Even in a time of pain and trouble spouses should be mindful of the way they treat each other and how they speak to anger. Nothing can destroy your relationship more quickly than misplaced anger.